Diaspora
Kenyan Father in America Urges Parents to Listen to Their Children Amid Social Media Concerns

A Kenyan American father has urged parents to build stronger relationships with their children, warning that growing up between two cultures, combined with social media and peer pressure, can create serious challenges for young people.
David Gu, a Kenyan American who moved to the United States with his family in 2007, shared the concerns while discussing the experiences of Kenyan families raising children in America.
Gu said his family initially settled in New Jersey before relocating to Georgia, where he has lived for years. Despite building a life in the United States, he said the family has maintained strong connections with Kenya and hopes to eventually retire there.
He described the experience of raising children in America as particularly challenging because many Kenyan parents retain the values and mindset they grew up with in Kenya, while their children are being shaped by American society.
“They are kind of in a middle ground,” Gu said, describing young Kenyan Americans who find themselves caught between their parents’ culture and the environment in which they are growing up.
Social media changing how young people interact
Gu identified social media, including platforms such as TikTok, as one of the major changes affecting today’s young people.
He contrasted the current generation with his own childhood, when young people would gather to play soccer, talk and interact directly.
Today, he said, young people can visit one another but remain focused on their phones instead of communicating face-to-face.
Gu acknowledged that social media has benefits but expressed concern about its influence on young people, particularly from high school through college.
He also pointed to peer pressure at school as another factor that can influence young people’s behavior and decisions.
Parents urged to make time for their children
According to Gu, one of the biggest challenges facing families is the lack of meaningful communication between parents and children.
He said many parents are busy working and may not have enough opportunities to sit down with their children and discuss what is happening in their lives.
That disconnect, he argued, can make it harder for parents to notice when their children are struggling.
Gu encouraged parents to pay attention to changes in their children’s behavior and the people they associate with.
“You know your kids better than anybody else,” he said, emphasizing that parents are often in the best position to recognize when something has changed.
‘Our generation is not their generation’
Gu’s advice to parents was not simply to impose stricter rules but to learn how to communicate differently with today’s young people.
He urged parents to listen to their children and reason with them instead of approaching every disagreement as an order that must be obeyed.
“Our generation is not their generation,” he said.
He argued that children are more likely to tell their parents about problems when they feel that their parents are willing to listen rather than simply command them.
That approach, he said, can create an environment where young people feel comfortable discussing difficulties before those problems become more serious.
Mental health concerns
The discussion also touched on mental health and the cases of teenagers who have died by suicide.
Gu said he believes some of the challenges facing young people can begin with a lack of connection between parents and their children.
His comments did not suggest that social media alone causes suicide. Rather, he linked the broader concerns to several factors, including social media, peer pressure, cultural pressures and what he described as disconnection within families.
For Kenyan parents raising children in the United States, he said, maintaining an open relationship with their children is therefore particularly important.
The full discussion with David Gu is available on the City Villager YouTube channel.
Watch the full interview on YouTube
A challenge for Kenyan parents in the diaspora
Gu’s message reflects a challenge faced by many immigrant families: raising children who are growing up in a culture that may differ significantly from the one their parents knew as children.
For Kenyan parents in the United States, that can mean finding a balance between preserving family values and understanding the realities their children face at school, online and among their peers.
For Gu, the starting point is communication.
Rather than simply telling children what to do, he believes parents need to create relationships in which young people feel heard, understood and safe enough to talk about what they are experiencing.
His message is simple: listen before you command, understand before you judge, and remain close enough to your children to recognize when something changes.
Diaspora
PHOTOS: Kenyan Diaspora in Chicago Celebrates National Pride as Amos Kipruto Wins 2026 Marathon

Kenyans living in the United States turned the 2026 Bank of America Chicago Marathon into an opportunity to celebrate their country’s sporting heritage, rallying behind Kenyan athletes competing in one of the world’s biggest road races.
The marathon, held on Sunday, October 11, brought together more than 54,000 participants across 29 Chicago neighbourhoods. For Kenyan supporters, the event offered an opportunity to celebrate the country’s reputation in long-distance running while connecting with fellow Kenyans living thousands of kilometres from home.
According to a report published by Mwakilishi, members of the Kenyan diaspora gathered to support their compatriots, with national colours, flags and enthusiastic cheering reflecting their pride in the athletes.
The celebrations came as Kenyan runners delivered notable performances in the men’s and women’s elite races, giving supporters additional reasons to celebrate their country’s presence on the international athletics stage.
Amos Kipruto leads Kenya’s success in Chicago
Kenya’s Amos Kipruto emerged as the men’s marathon champion, crossing the finish line in 2:01:09 to secure victory in the 48th edition of the Chicago Marathon.
According to World Athletics, Kipruto produced a strong second-half performance to pull away from Uganda’s Jacob Kiplimo before completing the race in one of the fastest marathon times recorded in history.
Kipruto’s victory continued his progression at the Chicago event. He finished third in 2024 and second in 2025 before claiming the title in 2026.
His latest performance also improved his personal best and moved him into a tie for fifth on the men’s all-time marathon list, according to World Athletics.
The victory provided a major highlight for Kenyan supporters who had travelled to watch the race or followed the competition from different parts of the United States.
Sharon Lokedi and Brigid Kosgei finish on the women’s podium
Kenyan athletes also delivered strong performances in the women’s elite race, although Ethiopia’s Hawi Feysa successfully defended her Chicago Marathon title.
Feysa won in 2:13:33 after a competitive battle with Kenya’s Sharon Lokedi, who finished second in 2:14:07.
Former women’s marathon world-record holder Brigid Kosgei, also from Kenya, finished third in 2:14:55.
World Athletics reported that the race produced a historic result, with three women finishing in less than two hours and 15 minutes for the first time in marathon history.
Lokedi’s performance was particularly notable given her recent success at major international marathons, while Kosgei once again demonstrated her ability to compete among the world’s leading distance runners.
Full event information and results are available on the official Chicago Marathon website.
Chicago marathon weekend brings Kenyans together
Beyond the competition itself, the Chicago Marathon has become an important gathering point for members of the Kenyan community in the United States.
One established event is the Kenya Marathon Dinner, which has welcomed Kenyan elite athletes and supporters in Chicago since 1998. The annual gathering celebrates Kenyan food, culture and athletic achievement while providing opportunities for athletes and members of the wider community to interact.
According to the organisers’ official website, the event brings together marathon runners, athletics enthusiasts, community leaders and other guests to celebrate Kenya’s sporting heritage.
Such gatherings provide an opportunity for Kenyans abroad to maintain cultural connections, strengthen community relationships and introduce younger generations to the country’s traditions.
For supporters watching the marathon, cheering for Kenyan athletes can also serve as a reminder of home and the shared experiences that connect people living in different countries.
Kenya’s global reputation in distance running
Kenya has established a strong international reputation in distance running through generations of athletes who have excelled at Olympic Games, world championships and major road races.
Athletes such as Eliud Kipchoge, Brigid Kosgei and many others have helped bring international attention to Kenya’s running culture and training communities.
The country’s success has also generated interest in its athletics development programmes, high-altitude training locations and the communities that nurture elite runners.
However, maintaining that reputation requires continued investment in grassroots athletics, coaching, training facilities, athlete welfare and transparent sports administration.
International competitions such as the Chicago Marathon provide a platform for established athletes to demonstrate their abilities while inspiring young runners who hope to compete at the highest level.
Diaspora support creates opportunities beyond sport
The enthusiasm surrounding major international races also highlights the potential contribution of diaspora communities to Kenya’s wider development.
Kenyans living abroad can support sporting initiatives through mentorship, charitable programmes, partnerships with athletics organisations and investment in opportunities for young people.
The connection between international athletes and Kenyan communities overseas may also create opportunities to promote tourism, cultural exchange and greater awareness of the country.
For younger members of the diaspora, watching Kenyan athletes compete internationally can provide a way to connect with their heritage and learn more about the country’s sporting achievements.
These opportunities extend beyond marathon weekend and can help sustain relationships between communities abroad and organisations working in Kenya.
A celebration of Kenya beyond the finish line
The 2026 Chicago Marathon offered Kenyan supporters an opportunity to celebrate both individual achievement and a shared national identity.
Kipruto’s victory in the men’s race, alongside Lokedi and Kosgei’s podium finishes in the women’s competition, provided memorable sporting moments for Kenyan athletics fans.
For members of the diaspora, the event also served as a reminder that national pride can remain strong across geographical boundaries.
As Kenya’s athletes continue to compete on the international stage, the support of communities abroad remains an important part of the wider story surrounding the country’s sporting heritage.
In Chicago, the marathon was therefore more than a contest over 26.2 miles. It was also an opportunity for Kenyans to celebrate their athletes, share their culture and maintain a connection with home.
Diaspora
Machakos Father Shares Heartbreak After Wife Reportedly Moves to the US, Leaving Him With Two Children

A father from Machakos County, Wellington Ngothe Ndembwa, has shared his emotional experience following the reported departure of his wife, Diana Syokau, to the United States, saying he has been left caring for their two children.
Speaking during an interview with Jamba TV, Wellington described the challenges he has faced since the reported separation, including the responsibility of raising the children, aged 12 and eight, while struggling to earn a living.
According to his account in the interview, Diana left Kenya with assistance from her sister. Wellington said communication between them had been difficult since her departure, with feelings of anger and disappointment making it hard for him to speak to her directly.
The circumstances surrounding the couple’s separation have not been independently established, and Diana’s account was not included in the information available for this report.
Father struggles to provide for his children
Wellington reportedly earns a living by collecting recyclable bottles in Nairobi, an undertaking he uses to support himself and his two children.
The responsibility of providing for the family has become more challenging following an accident he says occurred approximately six months ago.
According to his account, the accident left him with a persistent leg injury and ongoing pain, affecting his efforts to rebuild his life while meeting his children’s needs.
Despite these difficulties, Wellington continues to focus on caring for the children as he navigates the financial and personal challenges facing the family.
Says he still has feelings for his wife
In the interview, Wellington also spoke about his feelings for Diana, describing her as his first love.
He said he has not remarried and has little interest in pursuing another relationship, explaining that his feelings for his wife remain strong despite their separation.
In one of the most emotional parts of his account, Wellington said he would be willing to welcome Diana back if she returned to Kenya.
His remarks reflect the emotional complexity of a relationship that, according to his account, remains unresolved in his mind.
However, whether the couple will reconcile remains uncertain. No independent confirmation was available regarding Diana’s intentions or her perspective on the separation.
A family facing an uncertain future
Wellington’s account highlights the difficulties some families face when a relationship breaks down and one parent assumes much of the responsibility for raising children.
For families in such circumstances, financial pressure, health challenges and strained communication can make an already difficult situation even harder.
The needs and wellbeing of the two children remain an important consideration as the family navigates its circumstances.
While Wellington has expressed hope that he and Diana might reunite, the future of their relationship remains unclear.
His story has also prompted a broader conversation about love, separation, parental responsibilities and the difficult decisions people face when relationships change.
As the account shared with Jamba TV illustrates, moving forward after a separation can be complicated, particularly when children and unresolved feelings are involved.
Source attribution: This article is based on an account attributed to Wellington Ngothe Ndembwa during an interview with Jamba TV. Details about the separation and family circumstances have not been independently verified. Diana Syokau’s perspective was not available in the material reviewed for this report.
Diaspora
Family of Kenyan man who died in North Carolina, U.S.A. seeks Support to repatriate his body

The family of Henry Mukolwe Macharia, a 28-year-old Kenyan man who died in North Carolina, United States, is seeking support to repatriate his body to Kenya for burial.
Macharia died in Spring Lake, North Carolina, on September 11, 2026, with authorities reporting that preliminary findings indicated natural causes.
His death came to wider public attention on October 3, when the Spring Lake Police Department appealed for help locating his family after efforts to reach his next of kin proved unsuccessful. The appeal was widely shared by Kenyans online and across diaspora networks.
On October 6, Kenyan media outlets reported that authorities had connected with Macharia’s mother following the community’s efforts to circulate the appeal.
Macharia was the son of James Mboci Macharia and Lillian Mukolwe, and brother to Nelly Wanjiru, Paul Macharia and Diana Macharia, according to the family announcement. His family has ties to Nakuru, Kenya.
The family says it plans to transport his remains home for burial, with funeral arrangements to be announced later.
The circumstances surrounding Macharia’s death have not been publicly detailed beyond the preliminary report of natural causes.
His case has drawn attention to the challenges families can face when a loved one dies abroad, including the logistical and financial demands of international repatriation.
The family has appealed for prayers as it navigates the arrangements, asking the community to trust in God for comfort, strength and peace during the difficult period.
As relatives prepare to lay Macharia to rest, their immediate priority is to bring him home to Kenya.
Below is a verbatim message from the family
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It is with profound sorrow and humble acceptance of Gods will we announce the promotion to glory of Henery Mukolwe Macharia.
He was the son of James Mboci Macharia and Lillian Mukolwe and brother to Nelly Wanjiru, Paul Macharia and Diana Macharia of Nakuru Kenya.
He passed away from natural causes in spring lake, North Carolina, USA, on September 11th, 2026.
We kindly ask the community to keep his family in prayer, trusting God to grant them comfort, strength and peace during this difficult time.
Funeral arrangements will be communicated later. The family plans to repatriate Henry to Kenya for burial.
For financial support:
Zelle / Cash app
Eliud Ngei
Phone: 4049539527
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